Hello everyone, and welcome to Part 2 of Can a Slob Change? If you haven’t already done so, please go back and read Part 1: Slob at Heart. In it, I outline what it was like to be a child with a perpetually disastrous room, as well as dive into some of the reasons why I was so comfortable in the mess. Continue reading “Can a Slob Change? Pt. 2: Learn to be neat?”
Can a Slob Change? Pt. 1: Slob at Heart
As a child, I was always messy. My mom would tell me, “You’re just a pack rat, like your dad.” I never wanted to throw anything away, or put it where it “belonged”. In fact, none of my possessions had a place where they belonged—at least, not in an organizational sense. No, actually I used my mess as a means of navigating my room. Instead of the book I loved belonging in a certain place on the shelf, it belonged on the floor over to that side.
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How to rise up again after abuse, trauma, addiction or injustice
So you’ve felt hopeless and devastated. You’ve been terrorized, humiliated, and confused. You’ve decided you have had enough and can’t take it anymore, and you need to know the next step towards moving on.
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I don’t want to be a victim anymore
You have a choice. Each little decision will make up your identity, bit by bit.
Back to basics
Sometimes we get so preoccupied with magic tricks, we forget all about the importance of the fundamentals- like downward dog.
The problem with perfection
I tried to be perfect for the longest time. I’ve come to find that the pursuit of perfection is one of the most neurotic things that a person can do. Continue reading “The problem with perfection”