
Outliving your roots–reflections on grief and moving forward

The longer you live in this life, the more your perspective has the opportunity to change. And the wiser you are, the more you will take advantage of the circumstances and choose to allow them to change you.
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Hello everyone and welcome back to the Thoughts that Bind. (And if you’re new here, a warm welcome to you!) Today we’re talking about boundaries, and specifically cutting people out or “going no-contact”. It’s a subject I’ve covered before on this site a while ago, and I suggest you read this post first, if you haven’t already, as it is a good precursor to our discussion today.
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Hello, and welcome back to The Thoughts that Bind! This post is really going to be a general post, which I think is fitting given the topic at hand. But luckily, it’s something that we all can relate to. And that’s the idea that you’re never really going to be done with this life-learning thing.
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Hello, and welcome back to the Thoughts that Bind. If you’re new here, welcome! Today we’re talking about that juxtaposition between language and history, and what it has to do with us as modern people.
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Today I realized how much of my time I’m wasting chasing goals that I feel like I should be doing. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like they’re not good goals or anything, but I just don’t think they’re mine anymore.
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Hello and welcome back to The Thoughts that Bind! I’ve been thinking a lot about comparison lately, and I wanted to share my thoughts with you all. And so, I figured it would be nice to dig into this subject. Because as I’ve realized, it’s not as straightforward as we might think.
Continue reading “Comparison–thief of joy or good practice?”Human Nature–The Meaning of MissBekah Music

Hello, and welcome back to The Thoughts that Bind. Today, we’re continuing the MissBekah Music series and talking about the meaning behind the song Human Nature. First, go listen to the song by clicking here (for YouTube) or here (to listen to it on SoundCloud). You can find the lyrics written below.
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Welcome back to The Thoughts That Bind! Today, we’re talking about the song Grow, in the second installment of the series “the meaning of MissBekah Music”. If you’d like to take a listen before reading what I have to say, you can find this song on YouTube by clicking here.
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Hello, and welcome back to the Thoughts that Bind. And if you’re new here, welcome. Now, as you may or may not know, I’m Rebekah. And other than keeping this website maintained, I also like to make music. Sometimes I like to use music to simply express myself, while other times the songs I make have more to do with how I see the world. I found that there was some overlap with things I wanted to say to my readers here, and in my music. And so, I decided to begin a series wherein I talk about certain songs and the viewpoint that informs them.
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