Living life as it comes
We’ve been tiptoeing around the subject long enough on this website. It’s time to finally talk about journaling! Is journaling worth it? Is it silly? And what can it do for you? Let’s go!
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So, I’m a chronic over-thinker. I plan until I’m blue in the face, psyching myself out until I don’t even want to take action anymore. Even when I know I need to. Sometimes it works, giving me extra perspective and time to work out how I feel about things. But sometimes (often enough) it doesn’t. And that’s what I want to talk to you about today.
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In life, nothing is truly certain. Do these words fill you with dread and contempt? I know in the past, they have for me. The problem is, they’re just factually correct. As much as you can work hard and prepare for so many things in life, when you get down to it, nothing is truly a given. And that’s what I want to talk to you about today.
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Maybe you were hurt by someone a while ago. Or you fell in love and it was never reciprocated. Or you had this dream for so long but you just can’t make it work. We’re talking about it today–letting go. It’s a heavy, but important topic that we don’t talk about often enough.
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Today I want to talk to you about the idea of “doing your best”. It’s so problematic, because it’s so subjective. Some of us will make very little effort towards something, but then claim we did our best, because we know that people can’t technically argue with that. While still others use it as an excuse to judge themselves harshly for not being better at (insert whatever goal here) yet and burn themselves out in the process. So how are we supposed to find out what our real best is, and actually do it?
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Today we want to look into the question, “Who am I?” And not just scratch the surface, but really try to dig in and figure out what’s going on with you, who you’ve been, and who you’re becoming.
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We talk about a lot of different concepts here in the Thoughts that Bind. Concepts that change and save lives. And each of these concepts are very near and dear to my heart, many with swaths of context surrounding them. But it’s that very context that can make things confusing. Because how are you supposed to know what fits your life?
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Today we’re going to talk about a concept that’s annoying and exhausting (at least the way most people look at it) which is keeping yourself accountable, for your goals, dreams, and actions. We’ve already laid some pretty good groundwork in this area, which if you haven’t caught up on, I suggest you do that before reading this. You can find a pep talk for the monotony of recovery and goal-setting by clicking here, and you can find my recent discussion on motivation vs. inspiration here. Without further ado, let’s jump into the topic at hand.
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There was a song that we used to sing when I was a little girl, that was accompanied with a hand game or dance or whatever you want to call it. It started like this, “I went to a Chinese restaurant, to buy a loaf of bread, bread, bread, the lady asked what my name was, and this is what I said, said, said” and then it goes on with a long string of nonsense that if I never hear again, it’ll be too soon. But I was thinking about it today. And I don’t know about Chinese restaurants in your area, but in mine, I’ve never seen them selling loaves of bread.
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Hello everyone, and welcome back to the Thoughts that Bind! We talk so much on here about doing the work and achieving our goals (and so on), so today I thought we’d address an aspect of it that we haven’t really before: motivation.
